You should think on this for a minute or two.
Don’t live a double standard life, be yourself in and out, a double identity will add more stress to your life and then your real self is hidden. People tend to doubt your opinions when you speak amongst the crowd. If you say you are this be that.
You were born great, complete and perfectly made by God don’t wait for someone to tell you that.
You must be for something and not everything, don’t let every breeze that comes carry you.
Nobody can change the fact about who you are, so let them talk, people must talk about you because you are important.