A daily thing that we do, decisions are choices we make every day we make decisions in regards to one thing or another, the decision we take either makes or destroys us, decisions either takes us far or cut our progress short, most times we make decisions at the wrong moments/moods and when we have come out of such moods we regret it, quickly I will rush through some moments, States or mood that we should try not to making any decision because we may likely regret it when we are out of such state remember the walls have ears too.
Don’t make any decision, the Happiness state pushes people to give what so ever is in their possession, have you ever heard a king promise a person half or more than half of his kingdom due to praising from his subject? That is Happiness in play it makes you want to give a lot because you are excited please avoid what you say during such times, a lot of people have found out this strategy so they makes good use of it, they make who ever they want to claim a gift from very happy and when the Happiness is at it maximum the strike with their request or the person just gives a blank cheque be warned. Don’t fall prey.
Don’t make a decision at all, In this start you are looking for relief , not in your proper start of mind anything goes avoid not to take decision because when the state of depression is over you maybe mad at yourself.
Sadness is different from depression sadness happens to everyone much often than depression (This is a discussion for another day) back to today’s gist when we are sad we give a go ahead to everything, most times when we are sad we give response like (Alright, Go Ahead, No problem, I agree etc) just because we don’t want to talk, when one is sad he/she avoids engaging in a communicating with people. If you are to take any Decision wait till you are normal.
Never you decide on anything in this state you are off-balance and until you are stable any drastic decision you take may cause hazardous impacts.
Worst of all moments (I will refer you to my past post ANGER Click Here ➡ANGER⬅. No matter what you do never you say a word not to talk about making a decision because at that point you are not the one talking. Anger takes control of a person and when it has cause it’s damage it leaves you to suffer the Regrets please and please stay clear of making decisions in this state.
After going through much stress from anything and you are tired and worked out please stay out of decision-making you could end up making silly decisions.
You get an emergency call and you rushed over and you were placed on a hot seat please any decision can wait till you are calm.
This mood is usually caused by The loss one close relative or maybe a dearest friend although it is not the only cause of sorrow anyways. When a person is sorrowful the individual heart is heavy at that time trying to stabilize from the shock and trauma of the pain, if you ever get sorrowful please don’t make any life decision.
I will end on this note.
Don’t conclude on any thought till you are sure about it, never you sign a document without carefully reading through.
May God March With You This Month
In Regards To my post ➡PLANNED⬅ I will just continue in line with it, since God Has planned everything then we don’t need to worry but when we try to put our own plan into God’s plan then there is a problem. You see a lot of things happens for a particular purpose, things don’t just happen without it having a goal, there is a time for everything under the sun according to (Ecclesiastes 3).
Most times we miss timing because we feel we are not ready or one thing or the other, when God gives us His timing it is the perfect one what ever He commands do it. Don’t leave it for later, don’t plead for more time to do it, a perfect example I will use is king Hezekial God told Prophet Isaiah to tell him that his time has come he should put things in order but HEZEKAIL felt like he has not done anything, he thought he could still do more, he wasn’t READY.
Now he spent a good number of years pleasing God and when his time came, he was clean and ready to meet with God but he asked for extra years and the manner in which he sent the request to God was On a very Good platform and God had to show to his son mercy and granted him his request but those extra years was hazardous, it was stupid, all his years of labour, moiling and being Faithful was tarnished because he went out of the timing of God.
God has planned everything to Favour you so try to work with the things He gives you don’t run faster than yourself you may run too fast and end up too fast also, allow God to showcase you in every stage of life. Let His Timing prevail over Yours.
I Pray God Should Give Us The Grace To Walk With His Timing In Jesus Name Amen.
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Two or three people can be looking at a particular scene but yet their views are different, there is a tendency that 2 out of 5 groups won’t stay together for 5 years because of there inability to understand each other point of views. Most times people don’t do things with bad intentions but due to it not being clearly understood by the next person a misinterpretation is what we get from the second party,
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It Is one thing to know someone’s point of view and it is another thing to understand it too. There ought not to be misunderstanding in so many things but lack of investigation and analysing of information is a challenge.
PARENTS & CHILDREN
After putting your MINDSET in the proper position, you have to believe in yourself, believe is one of the active force that drives people towards achieving their set goals. The potential is inside of you, all you need do is to believe and you will be amazed what you can do. Believe in yourself with no trace of doubt because a little doubt can discourage you when you meet any challenge as you try to achieve your set goals stand firm, through away any fear and doubt in order to completely believe in yourself.
Now believe in yourself and also believe in God. even if you find it very difficult to believe in your capability believe in God. Talking about God, He is always there to help but He also requires you to believe too.
Believing in yourself means believing in the power of the potential that is in your inside, you must believe that you have it in the inside before you can start training it to become strong and reproductive. When building your believe I will advice you avoid people who Are always right. Because whatever you do is wrong in their sight only what they do is right.
Must importantly do not DOUBT what Doubt will only do for you is to make your effort look stupid which ought not to be.
Even When people say cruel things about you just forget what they say don’t be ashamed believe in what you know only time will tell. A times they may say you don’t behave like them you are different,you act differently from them but that is it, you are unique in your own way. Don’t follow their style,way or manner of approach use what you know. Even if it is not the best, you don’t need to copy others, notwithstanding if you are not satisfied with it I mean your way and you think you can do better no problem all you need do is to upgrade your style,but don’t leave what you know to do, to do what you don’t know, it may not work miracles for you as it is working for them. You have to believe in yourself you are the best, am different am unique, the bible calls Me a peculiar person,I was chosen by God, I am created in the image of God. The way you see yourself that is the exert way people of this world will see you don’t see yourself as an inferior being,don’t see yourself as a loser because of some failures you have experience. So many great people in the world have failed more than you have failed yet they still believed in themselves till they achieved success. One thing you must know is that what ever you believe in will work for you. People usually say the Anointing you don’t believe in will never work for you,it is very true and is applicable to our life’s too what ever we don’t believe in will not work, when you hear people say I don’t believe in what ever power that is not of Christ so nothing they do will have effect on Me and you see the person living in no fear is because he/she knows what they believe and who they are so strange powers can have effect or control over them.
Sometimes it is very difficult to believe in a situation that looks hopeless and stupid remember I told you that even God needs us to believe also.
At the wedding in Cana trust me if the people had doubted what Jesus told them to do and they just over look his instructions they wouldn’t have done what he told them, but they believe in Him and carried out his order, and thus was Jesus first Miracle recorded
When we believe in what we are and what we can do results comes faster than normal, sometimes we believe or think that what we do can’t bring forth or achieve anything good that is why no matter how hard we try we get nothing from what we do.
Today I want you to kill the doubt and unbelievable and recreate a new mind that sees everything possible may God help us.
Have A Blessed Day.
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